• We ask that you fill out the RSVP ASAP but if they can be filled out by the 11th July 2025.

  • Unfortunately, we will not be able to accommodate you if you RSVP late. We will need to provide our vendors and the venue exact guest count by a 11th July 2025 date.

    While we will send out reminders, as well as send out invitations early, please be sure to RSVP as soon as possible.

  • For day guests, please arrive at the venue from 2 pm for a 2:30 pm start. Unfortunately, any guests arriving once the ceremony has begun will not be able to attend the ceremony. This will allow time for you to park (unless you are taxing or have other transportation), Drop your bags off if you are staying the night, and find your seats.

    Any guests staying overnight after the wedding at Wotten house can check in at 3pm, you can see if your rooms are ready and if they are Please make your way downstairs to the ground floor for a 2.30pm start. If your room isn’t ready you can drop your bags off and check in after the ceremony.

    Be aware the venue it is down the M25 on a Friday and it’s a work day. Sometimes it can have very bad traffic so factor this in to your travels.

  • We ask if evening guests can turn up at 7.30 this will be the perfect time for you to witness our cutting cake, first dance, sparklers and to celebrate the evening with us!

  • Yes, if the weather is good the ceremony will be held outdoors.

  • We'd love to have our loved ones get dressed up for our big day. So suited and booted for the gentlemen and ladies dress to impress.

    No Jeans, please!!

  • There is plenty of parking at Wotten house. Be aware the venue it is down the M25 on a Friday and it’s a work day. Sometimes it can have very bad traffic so factor this in to your travels.

  • Yes, you can stay.

    Matt & Kirsty will be staying the night before and you can join them for dinner if you wish.

    A few people are already choosing this option.

  • Due to limited numbers, we're only able to accommodate guests who are formally invited. If you've received a plus one, they'll be specifically addressed on your invitation on the R.S.V.P with their name too. Otherwise, we ask that only the named people on the invitation be in attendance. Thank you so much for understanding!

  • As much as we love your children, & with limited numbers, we've chosen to make our wedding an adults-only affair. For this reason, we're unable to accommodate children and kindly request they are not in attendance.

    We hope you understand and are still able to make it!

  • We are having an "unplugged ceremony" (no phones or cameras). The greatest gift you can give us is being fully present as we say "I do". We have hired professionals to capture this moment for us and we promise to share our photos as soon as we receive them. After the ceremony, feel free to take as many photos and videos as you'd like! We would love to see them too!

    However, we kindly request that guests do not post any photos of the Matt & Kirsty on social media until they have had the opportunity to do so first.

  • Whilst you will be truly missed, if you are unable to attend, we would be grateful if you could fill out the RSVP which states if you are unable to attend and let us know at the earliest opportunity so that we can plan accordingly.